It seems like only yesterday but how quickly a year has gone by since we had to say goodbye to our dog Theo who was the most wonderful dog in the world and I loved him to death.
He was the daftest dog sometimes and yet the cleverest, he could tell you he wanted a biscuit or he wanted to go and do a tiddle, or it was time for dinner.
We took him to have his hair cut the day before and he seemed a bit reluctant to go but he usually comes back full of the joys of spring and walks about with his majestic walk as if to say, “look at me, how smart am I?”
This time however he didn’t have his usual spark and was having more trouble than usual walking, his arthritic back leg seemed a little worse and he was having trouble with his front leg.
We knew this time was coming but you hate to have to admit it, he lay on his chair and was very subdued and during the next day he became quieter and started showing signs that he was in pain.
Having phoned the vet and made the appointment we stayed with him talking to him and stroking him until it was time to go.
I thought he would be unable to walk into the vets but when we got there he did his best and walked in with dignity and piddled on the floor by the reception desk, well if you have style it’s always good to announce your arrival with flair.
We were with him all the time and he went very quickly and quietly and I burst into tears, I’m not very good at the stiff upper lip thing.
What a majestic dog he was, he had a good life and a long life amongst people who loved him and you can’t ask for much more than that.
I am a retired actor, although to be honest I only retired because I wasn't getting any work due to losing my agent when I became a full time carer to my mother who had dementia. and the option of becoming an unemployed actor/waiter at my age was ludicrous, especially as my waiting skills are non-existent.
Having said I’m retired, I don’t think there really is such a thing as a retired actor for I am still available for work, I just don’t have an agent or any connections with regards to obtaining any worthwhile work.
I have over the years done student films when there is nothing else available, always low paid (if at all) the only incentive was always the promised copy of the finished film for your show reel which nine times out of ten always failed to materialise.
I spent many years looking after my aged mother and shortly after her death I was lucky enough to run into an ex-girlfriend of many years ago and our romance blossomed once again, resulting in us getting married in 2013.
My move to the countryside inspired me to write The Diary of a Country Bumpkin which tells of my continuing dilemmas in dealing with the rigors of the countryside from the unexpectedly large number of pollens, fungal moulds and hay products waiting to attack the unsuspecting townie.
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Always a difficult decision to make. If only we humans could have an off button under our arms. (suitably guarded against accidental operation)
I’m not sure I like life rushing by at this speed, I don’t want to rush to get past my sell by date!
It s always a hard decision to make, but we love our pets and put them first. Hard to believe it is a year. They leave such a hole.
It’s 15 and a half since we lost Barney and it feels like only yesterday. We got Maggie after 6 days and she has made her own way into our hearts. She is showing her age now, but at the moment, she’s good.
I hope Maggie stays fit and well for many a year yet.
Hi Joe. We do too, but know she’s slowing down. The vet says she’s in good health and amazing for her age, though we thought we were going to lose her earlier this year with a pyometra infection. For an old lady though, she’s faring better than I am!!
I do sympathise with your loss of Theo. Over the years we have said goodbye to so many family pets, each one is a family member and loved as such.
The main thing is they had a good life and were loved while they were here and Theo certainly had that.
Absolutely Joe. They brought us so much joy.
Hard to believe it’s a year. RIP Theo.
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